Everything is possible, nothing is necessary? Flirting with flair

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Sociologist and sex educator Barbara Rothmüller this time about unnecessary dating tips and the right sense of sexual approaches.

The internet is full of overly complicated dating tips. Because the most important rules and advice are simple. For example: someone who smiles may want more, maybe not. Okay, do you think?

Lisa, a young woman, experienced things differently on vacation. “My family and I were in our bathrobes on our way to the sauna when a much older man got into the elevator. I smiled at him and said hello, it was just polite. But he misunderstood and repeatedly baked me inappropriately. It was really uncomfortable.”

Just because a woman laughs, you can’t expect the story to end in bed, even if there’s a big difference in age or power, let alone. Some men feel that women should be at their disposal – temporarily, emotionally and sexually. It doesn’t necessarily have to do with age. With such a righteous attitude, it is also difficult for young men to endure rejection. They get irritated when women don’t want to. Dating always comes with frustrating rejections.

Keeping pushing women, even if they don’t respond to flirting, is certainly not tempting. On the contrary. Men are attractive if they are genuinely interested in other people – while being open and respectful. Without a sense of people and their limits, even the best dating tips are of little use.

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Source: Krone

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