Due to the war of aggression in Ukraine, children with a Russian background are repeatedly excluded. What must we do?
The world tilted. It is incomprehensible what is happening only 700 km from Austria. Also for children. Not only do they too often see images of war that terrify them. They also experience how Russian teams are banned from sporting events, how Russian products are removed from the supermarket range and they hear again and again about sanctions.
consequences of war
The effects of the conflict between Russia and Ukraine are now permeating residential areas and schools. A Russian accent is enough to be offended, former Soviet citizens complain. Even schoolchildren are no exception among themselves. Dear friends – until the war broke out.
Different than before
Anastasia attends primary school in Vienna and has Russian roots. After the war broke out in Ukraine, she tells her at home that school is somehow different from normal. Her best friend also bullies her. It quickly becomes clear to Anastasia’s mother: this must have something to do with the war. And with her Russian descent. The clerk also feels the hostilities in the office.
Desire nothing more than peace
The whole family is devastated by what is happening in Ukraine and they want nothing more than peace. Anastasia’s experiences at school are not isolated. There are several ways to approach this topic, says one who should know: bullying expert Alexandra Fritz. “On the one hand, teachers could talk specifically about Russian history and traditions and bring the country and traditions closer to the children. Always with an emphasis on the fact that together we are all human and that everyone is good just the way they are.”
Blur the victim
In a specific case of bullying, it is important not to give the perpetrators any space or attention and to take the victims out of the spotlight. Fritz: “I practice consciously turning away from the situation in children. Ignoring is the greatest punishment for perpetrators if you know their motives.”
increase self confidence
In addition, the victims and their families must be strengthened in their self-confidence. Much can be accomplished if victims learn that what others say is not their own truth. Anyone can “mention themselves mentally to become mentally resilient”. Bullying courses are a plus. It also strengthens class community.
Source: Krone
I am Ida Scott, a journalist and content author with a passion for uncovering the truth. I have been writing professionally for Today Times Live since 2020 and specialize in political news. My career began when I was just 17; I had already developed a knack for research and an eye for detail which made me stand out from my peers.
